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FEAR according to me is a four letter word which makes no sense! Fantacised Emotions Appearing Real is FEAR.
WE as humans know much more things and virtues than anyother being on earth. we have the capacity to understand and analyse various things in and around us BUT... we do not use our senses and capabilities to do any of the above things.. most of the times we dont use our brains to segregate what is crrect and what is not! we have become too lathargic to even think. in spite of us knowing that fear is just a feeling and it is not going to cause us any good.. we still fear many things in our day to day lives! we fear hit by a car when we crosd the road.. we fear our own dogs.. we fear if we ll make a mistake during a public speaking session.. we fear if we ll drown in the swimming pool inspite of knowing the fact tht we know swimming and so on! FEAR is always there in our minds .. it is always there in our bodies.
as long as fear is there t is very difficult for us to move ahead in our lives. our growth is hindered and unnecessary problems occur! fearing exams .. fearing our professors.. fearing our parents .. occur only when we comit a mistake and its all due to sheer laziness! the sub consious mind believes that fear is permanent and one can never overcome it..! our mind set is so tht we believe tht fear is essential! but NO! fear is a poison tht will slowly kill your progress and growth! fear is a silent obserever which will never talk thro words but thro silence..! fear is just a fantasy! fear is just UNREAL!
ONE DAY when i had been in bali near indonasia a group of us went to do bungee jump and we were extremely excited! no words to express my excitement and its was something new for us! ive never seen a person jump for such a great height in real! we were all decked up and it was my chance to climb the steps which lead to the top. i was all smiling and jumpimg when i was climbling but slowly.. some wierd feeling started creepin inside me! and when i went up all my smile slowly faded away and nervousness was obvious in my face! there were five ppl wot me and i was the third to jump!the first person jumped,, without any FEAR ! he was so damn cool and composed that he did a perfect jump! next was one small girl.. very bold and happy .. she also did a perfect "let go " jump! next was an uncle.. he was not happy and excited and he wanted to back out.. looking at the beach in front of him and the height where he was standing he started trembling .... tht made me even uneasy.. ppl down were all yelling and screamin! lol... tht uncle created a big scene! was funny! finally he jumped a "suicide" jump as they called it!
phew... next was me!mann! my hormones started rushing and was all nervous! first thing tht came to my mind was " do i have to do this??" and the fear in me started building and stopped me from doing it! i was like.. wot the hell.. i have to do it and the trainer guy standing right behind me waiting to push me is encouragin me to jump and boosting my confidence!lol.. but alas! it dint work.. i finally did a funny suicide jump..! i was so ashamed! i could ve done it better! when a small girl could do it why cant i!!! its all cause of the FEAR in me! inspite of me knowing tht the rope tht is holding me is no way gonna snap..and the expertise the trainers had .. i still feard to jump! why!! this is what we call lack of trust! trust is really important in our lives to get past all our fears! we have to first trust ourselves! we have to trust our abilities! we have to trust everyhting tht we do! if i have had tht trust tht time during my jump.. i would have done it beautifully!! i wouldn have done a dumb jump like tht... tht day i learnt a lesson not to fear unnecessarily and learn to let go things.... after all life is for once and we dont have a second chance!!
DO NOT FEAR FOR IT IS NOT REAL!